It's been over three months since I took myself off of online dating. I feel calmer, more myself since doing it. My friends will agree. Intentional Dating is supposedly the better way to meet a lot of people. So I counted how many people I have met-this last year. It's been 20? 30? I lost count… Continue reading Being Out of the Dating Game
My astrological sign is a centaur archer. The picture of a half-man, half-horse with a bow and arrow in his hand seems appropriate to how I feel about myself. I want to aim my arrow into the sky at something far away, and then, I want to gallop after my fallen prey, my victory. So… Continue reading Sitting Still With the Unknown
How do we access the core of who we are as an individual? How do we go about finding the right person who complements us and we complement them? This morning, I started my ongoing journey. I go still, sitting on my couch with a blanket around me attempting to create a cozy-womb like experience… Continue reading Core Gifts- The Center of Your True Self
The fourth of the ten virtues is Loyalty. It seems fitting to talk about loyalty since it is nearly the Fourth of July, a day we celebrate for freedom, and yes, loyalty because without the first Americans being loyal to the cause of freedom,we would not be setting off fireworks and celebrating our freedoms. To date,… Continue reading Virtue # 4-LOYALTY
Muses have been around ever since artists were born. They have been seen as mystical creatures, an actual person in the artist's life, or a place or thing. For an artist, a muse is a good luck charm, a talisman that the creative thoughts and ideas will continue to flow to them and out of… Continue reading Muses Don’t Fail Me
It is day three in my tiny apartment. A 500 sq. ft. apartment that makes me feel as if I moved to New York City, not Denver. Traffic at all hours of the night, miniscule kitchen space, and a bedroom that barely stretches to 9 X 9 feet. I have kitchen accoutrements that would feel… Continue reading Tiny Places
The precise meaning for Transition: 1. movement, passage, or change from one position, state, state, subject, concept, etc. to another change. 2. Music- a. passing from one key to another; modulation b. a brief modulation, c. a sudden, unprepared modulation I am going through transitions. I would call my transition a forced transition. Why? because… Continue reading Transitions
What if every time I made a decision it was the right one? What if every time I opened my mouth, I said the right thing? What if every time I looked at the person in front of me, beside me, or behind me, I smiled and sent them love? Even if they triggered something… Continue reading What If ??
Everyday, we experience and live and relive a story we have written for ourselves. The power of thought and the word is strong. But only as strong as the experience and feelings we attach to it. That is why it's hard to be real within ourselves- to know what we have imagined and created that in… Continue reading Imaginary Versus Real-Stories that come and go and stay too long.
I have an adventurous daughter that decided almost five years ago to move to New York City, specifically Brookly, specifically Bushwick. For those of you who know the NYC/Brooklyn Real Estate, you know this means the furtherest point from downtown Manhatten and a place she can afford. I have to confess- I am a proud mother. She… Continue reading A Writer’s First Ride on the The New York “L” Train to Brooklyn